I heard from a new friend today. New because I've only enjoyed her company for the last three months or so. Right when I was getting use to having her around the office, poof - she's gone! Interns do that!
She texted me because according to her, "I'd understand!" She's having her first baby! She's pumped! As she should be! Turns out a bunch of folks have been sharing their two cents. Many sharing a bunch of idiotic statements like, "be careful, take it easy... I miscarried at your stage!" What the WHAT? I mean, come on... Is that really what a newly preggers gal wants to hear?
People mean well, but sure enough they spread a bunch of fear when they open their big fat mouths! Now, I'm not perfect! My husband might say I'm likely to spew some fears, but to tell a newly pregnant, over-the-moon mommy, the one thing that could FREAK her out for months to come! GEEEZ!
She texted me that she needed some positivity since I once told her to surround herself BY ONLY THAT! Well this was my response, "shut out the crap!" Yup, shut it out and envision the finish line and holding her perfectly precious loving child!
That's how I spend my day! I live my world, my way. Often, you'll find me in a state of daydreaming, envisioning the perfectly beautiful finish line! Idealistic me! I always see the finish line with what I WANT ending up just the way I wanted it! I like my world, my way! A way full of goodness and positive OUTCOMES!
Why not rebel from living with fear and worry? Remember to rebel... WORRY less and love life MORE!
